Arguably, sex is one of the most enjoyable things to man. The feel-good hormones that come with orgasm are incomparable to anything.

Sex is magical and can naturally make people happy. For couples, having sex helps them to know about their fertility. It can also be for relaxation - to clear your head and get your mood back.

Especially for women, stimulating parts of their genitals bring shivers that cannot be explained. Likewise, for men, getting to stroke your penis in different manners within the female body is quite marveling. Additionally, the feel of relaxation and incomparable chills that follow an ejaculation is an experience to behold!

But beyond what we see, there are several hormones, and body chemicals that allow all these to be achievable. The body needs to be stimulated to some extent before this is possible. Also, certain glands in the brain must be activated to ensure “the ultimate bliss” arrives.

While it looks certain that orgasm is easy to achieve, especially in men. There are many body conditions and disorders that could stop this from happening. Also, other than the sperm in the semen, an ejaculate (the semen) is composed of different cells, enzymes, and fluid enough to make fertilization of the egg possible.

Hence, we must look carefully at what male orgasm is and how it also relates to fertility.



Orgasm is a psychological and bodily event that signals the peak of sexual arousal. Male orgasm often results in the release of semen, known as an ejaculate. To achieve orgasm, it needs to be preceded by some genital stimulation or triggers from other parts of the body like the breast. Also, orgasm can be triggered by fantasy, medication, or even sleep.

It is a brain event that comes with extraordinary pleasure. Orgasm leaves you with an intense bodily feel, blood rushes, quick breath, and muscle contractions. It is by far the most intense sensory experience for the brain. Having an orgasm puts the brain in a mode where it activates all the body systems for the single goal of reaching O-town!

Achieving orgasm involves many sensory nerves and hormones extending throughout the body. It’s like a cascade of electrical activity that rapidly spread throughout the body system. The brain, within 1-3 seconds triggers signal down the spinal cord to the genitals, arousing the body till the point where you orgasm.

How is the male orgasm produced and everything that goes in the background

For a man, the sex hormone – testosterone, plays a major role in achieving orgasm. The levels of testosterone in your testicles dictate your libido (sex drive), penile erection, and ultimately orgasm. So, low levels of testosterone can affect your sex drive and might make orgasm unachievable.

Generally, the process of male orgasm occurs in stages of sexual arousal. Each of these stages adds up to make up the whole brain event of the male orgasm.



1. Excitement 

This stage begins the sexual arousal process. It can start when you are sexually aroused visually, physically, or some thoughts. Any of these stimuli will cause your heart to race fast, develop a flushed skin, and your muscle tension increases. 


The excitement stage is when the parasympathetic nervous system is activated. This part of your nervous system is responsible for involuntary and autonomic actions. But when activated by sexual arousing stimuli, the system prompts the brain to release acetylcholine, a neurotransmitter.

Acetylcholine then triggers the release of nitric oxide into the spongy tissues in the penis. The penile arteries are expanded and blood rush in, causing the penis to erect. The tip of the penis is also filled with the secretion of the blubo-urethral glands. This lubricates the tip of the penis, for easy penetration into the vagina. Also, the testicles become retracted and it tightens. 


After sexual arousal, the whole excitement processes are achieved in a split second. The excitement stage of the male orgasm typically gets your body in the mood, with your genitals activated – erected and lubricated for thrusting into the female body. The hypothalamus secretes oxytocin which brings about sexual excitement and the hippocampus brings about fantasy and keeps your memory about the sexual event active. 


As you begin sexual intercourse, the sympathetic nervous system is activated. This system, associated with fight or flight increases your heart rate and makes you sweat increasingly. 


2. Plateau 


The plateau stage of sexual arousal precedes orgasm. It is usually called the preparation stage for male orgasm. All the body state achieved during the excitement stage are maintained. 


As sexual intercourse heightens in this stage, other parts of the brain are activated. The heart rate at this stage approaches about 150-175 beats per minute. Body temperature increases, blood pressure heightens, and there is an activation of the cerebellum, causing an increase in muscle tension and muscle twitching in hands, face, or feet. 


The plateau stage prepares the body to approach orgasm. Usually, traces of pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum) appear on the tip of your penis. With the heightened body state, the pH of the urethra is increased and could kill off the sperm in the semen (ejaculate) during orgasm. So, the pre-cum is released to help to alter the pH of the urethra enabling the sperm to survive. 


The plateau stage continues for about 30 seconds to 2 minutes, depending on your sexual strength, till orgasm is achieved. 


3. Orgasm 


The male orgasm, which is the climax of the sexual intercourse is achieved after undergoing a plateau phase. 


The orgasm stage is intense and puts the brain into an all-inclusive form. It is the shortest of all the stages and sums up all the psychological events built up from the preceding stages. The peak of sexual pleasure is attained with orgasm. 


Male orgasm happens in two parts. Emission, the first part is achieved when the prostate and seminal glands secret fluids that mix up with sperm from the testicles to produce semen. Then, this is followed by ejaculation, the second part. Here, the rhythmic contraction of the penis occurs. This highly pleasurable contraction help to propel the semen through the urethra out of the penis, to the woman’s vagina. 


The brain plays a major role in excitement during the male orgasm. The brain is flooded with neurochemicals that incite intense emotional pleasure. Also, the part of the brain that is responsible for self-control and judgment is shut off. This explains why nothing else matters during orgasm. You’re showered with deep pleasure and lightheadedness. Orgasm is the reward of sexual intercourse masterminded by the brain and nervous system. 

Also Read: The Ultimate Guide To Female Orgasms: What And How


All the muscle tension built up during the excitement and plateau stage are relaxed and you feel some sort of chills – a “cloud 9” kind of feel. 


4. Resolution and Refraction

After orgasm, you begin to lose your erection, and your body temperature drops. During the resolution stage, your heart rate and blood pressure slow down, followed by a feeling of drowsiness or an extreme sense of relaxation. This explains why a lot of men feel sleepy after reaching orgasm.

The refractory stage is the period or moment after an orgasm where you’re unable to achieve erection even with continuous sexual stimulation. The refractory period can be as short as 2-15mins, for young men or even a day for older men.

However, for some men, they can maintain an erection even after orgasm, thereby allowing them to have multiple male orgasms.



Multiple male orgasms involve the ability of a man to have more than one orgasm during the resolution and refractory stage.

This is achieved either by having 2-4 individual and defined orgasms in a space of a few seconds up to about 2 minutes. Another way is of achieving multiple male orgasms by delayed refraction. Allowing you to maintain the erection after ejaculation, thereby witnessing multiple male orgasms.

Multiple male orgasms don’t necessarily mean ejaculating more than once. The successive orgasms after the first could be without an ejaculate. However, the emotional and psychological feels of ejaculating follow it, thereby making you feel the highly pleasurably feel of orgasm.

Achieving multiple male orgasms is usually a result of a heightened state of sexual arousal. It could be through the use of sex toys or psychoactive drugs like cocaine, nicotine, cannabis, or caffeine. Other times, multiple male orgasms could be from high stimulation from your partner or novel sex styles.

Most times, multiple male orgasms are possible with young guys, with an increase in age, the ability becomes harder to achieve.






Just as noted earlier, achieving orgasm is not always that easy. Many men suffer from conditions that make it impossible for them to achieve orgasm. Many often affect fertility. 


First, we have to understand that there is a difference between orgasm and ejaculation. 


Ejaculation is a part of the male orgasm phase. It is mainly the emission of the ejaculate from the penis. Orgasm is the sum of the psychological events during the peak of the sexual intercourse. It includes forming of the semen, ejaculation, the rhythmic contraction of the penis, and the highly enjoyable feel masterminded by the brain neurochemicals. 


Sometimes, it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation. Especially because young boys can have an orgasm even when they aren’t old enough to ejaculate. Also, men are beginning to learn how to achieve orgasm without ejaculating – making multiple male orgasms achievable. 


So, ejaculation disorders are existing distinctly in males while we have male orgasm disorder differently. 


Ejaculation disorders are part of orgasm disorders. Some ejaculation disorders include premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, and anejaculation. 


Premature ejaculation is an ejaculation disorder whereby the ejaculate is released just within minutes of penetrating the vagina. This ejaculation disorder occurs when you’re unable to control or delay ejaculation thereby affecting sexual satisfaction. 


Most times, premature ejaculation (pre-cum), is enough to impregnate your partner. This ejaculation disorder doesn’t affect fertility. But, it makes the sexual intercourse unenjoyable and mostly frustrates both you and your partner. 


Retrograde ejaculation is an ejaculation disorder whereby semen enters the bladder instead of being released through urethra out of the penis. Anejaculation is an ejaculation disorder that simply implies the inability to ejaculate semen. Semen is not released even when you orgasm. This ejaculation disorder is usually referred to as dry orgasm – a result of surgery or some severe medical condition. 


The male orgasm disorder is known as anorgasmia. It is different from ejaculation disorders. 


Anorgasmia is the inability of a man to achieve orgasm despite sufficient sexual stimulation. Unlike ejaculation disorders, anorgasmia is a lifelong medical condition that results from severe health conditions or psychological problems. 


To achieve male orgasm, excitement through stimulation is needed. The sex drive has to be there. So, unlike erectile dysfunction that can be treated with drugs such as Cenforce 200, sildenafil citrate (viagra), vidalista, tadalafil, fildena which are available on online drug stores. With male orgasm, the sex drive has to be there before other stages of orgasm can be achieved. So, drugs as such can’t make you orgasm. 


It is mostly as a result of an underlying medical condition like diabetes, hypertension, hypogonadism, prostate surgery. It could also be a side effect of medications like antidepressants. Also, psychological problems like trauma, extreme stress, and performance anxiety result in anorgasmia. 


Treating anorgasmia depends on the cause. When due to diseases or severe medical conditions, treating these underlying medical conditions is the way out. For psychogenic anorgasmia, psychotherapy is administered. Change of medications, testosterone replacement, and dopamine promoter are other treatments for male orgasm disorder.





The simple answer to this will be for pleasure. When men have sex, orgasm is the peak of sexual enjoyment. It puts the body in an intense, complicated, and incomparable pleasuring mode. This explains why men masturbate just to have a feel of that orgasmic pleasure. 


But, more critically, we’ll see that the main need for orgasm is for reproduction. When men orgasm, and ejaculate mostly follow it. This ejaculate is semen, which comprises cells, enzyme, sperm, and fluid that make fertilization of the female egg possible. 


Orgasm is also necessary for bonding in relationships. When sex is well enjoyed to the point that partners can stimulate each other to orgasm, a feeling of intimacy and bonding is developed. 






Generally, when you orgasm, several hormones are released. Oxytocin, which is a feel-good hormone is also released. This and other endorphins released during male orgasm work as relaxants. Thus, male orgasm can help you relax, the relief you of stress and trauma. 


Researches have also linked male orgasm to a reduced risk of prostate cancer and heart diseases. It was suggested that hormones released during male orgasms like DHEA and oxytocin have protective qualities. Oxytocin is known to relax the body and help low blood pressure. 


Orgasm also relieves one of the headaches, hiccups, and can potentially cure migraine. Frequent ejaculation can also help improve sperm viability. As sex is a form of exercise, it is seen to be of benefits to general health. Hence, frequent sex is advised to keep the body well and active.






Orgasm is complicated. The feeling that comes with it is unexplainable and is by far the most intense and pleasurable event witnessed by the human body.  


In terms of relationships, couples that frequently stimulate each other to orgasm will have a high level of intimacy and bonding. Achieving orgasm is however complicated, especially for women. For men, a lot of sexual stimuli precede the attainment of orgasm. 


Orgasm is the peak of sexual intercourse. It is accompanied by a lot of pleasurable feels, increased heart rate, and body temperature. 


The whole sexual arousal that leads to male orgasm is in stages. This includes the excitement stage, the plateau, orgasm itself, and the resolution stage. During the last stage, the body undergoes a refractory period that puts the body and penile erection back to the initial stage before sexual stimulation. 


Often, there is usually a short waiting period before erection, and body excitement is achieved again. However, some men have been able to learn how to maintain an erection by delaying refraction, making it possible for them to achieve multiple male orgasms. 


The male orgasm is sometimes hard to achieve for some. This is usually a result of ejaculation disorders or the male orgasm disorder known as anorgasmia. 


The whole process of achieving orgasm in male, which includes ejaculation, makes reproduction possible. Although, men often have sex to achieve orgasm for relaxation and have a feel-good moment. 


Orgasm is beneficial to health generally and can help cure some potential diseases.




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John Matthew
John Mattew is a passionate writer with a professional degree in Creative Writing. He specializes in the Sexual Health category for Cheap Medicine Shop and spends most of the time discussing the research studies with his colleagues. He is a very organised individual and makes sure to inculcate discipline in whatever he does. Fitness and sports are two topics, John can talk about day in and day out.